Thailand’s Welcoming Spirit
Thai people are nice, welcoming, and polite. You may think it’s of the fake kind – the tourism mask. After all, many countries boast about their hospitality. Having also been to places in Thailand off the backpacker’s radar, I believe it’s genuine.
Thai kids are taught consideration for others, politeness, and respect from a young age. It’s encapsulated in a Thai principle known as Kreng Jai which roughly translates as “awe of heart”. It can also be interpreted as a non-confrontational mindset.
We, foreigners, cannot fully grasp the depth to which Kreng Jai penetrates the collective spirit of the Thai people. It shows up everywhere in social interactions, from politely declining offers to trying not to disturb someone, even in small ways, like quietly slipping out of a room.
As an alien, I sometimes find this non-confrontational stance to be a bit annoying even, as locals may be more concerned with helping me save face than correcting me when I am wrong.
Anyhow, these courtesy and respect are never faked.
Buddhism culture also influences everyday life with its teachings of kindness, patience, and giving. Most Thai people are non-judgmental and do not convey entitlement.
This is to say that Thai hospitality is sincere and locals really do like to help from their hearts.
Use your Thailand trip to learn humility from the source and give back kindness when you receive it.
